Valentines Day is all about love.

valentines day

For this coming Valentines day don’t get discouraged because you don’t have a date. Here are some simple and good tips and suggestions about spending the most romantic day of the year – while not feeling discouraged and even jealous.

Valentines day is all about love.

It’s a day to celebrate love and romance. A date on Valentine’s day is like a first date. And it’s more likely to be the first romantic date you will share with your other half, when you meet the right person.

If you don’t have a date for this Valentines, don’t get discouraged; rather, be happy, and don’t feel obligated to go on a date, just because you don’t want to feel lonely. Love can happen when we least expect it. Get excited for things to come and for people you can meet while having fun with other single friends on this day of Love.

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Getting the same results?

Same Results
When Christian singles decide to make changes in their lives, where they should expect the changes to come from, what should be their focus and where should they be searching for satisfaction? Dating advice for those looking to improve themselves to be able to be the best for their future spouse.
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Top Christian Songs of 2015

Top Christian Songs 2015

Another year has passed and once again we present the Top Christian Songs of 2015, courtesy of Billboard. Each year we’ve been presenting our readers with the best Christians songs of the year! You can also check our past lists such as Top Christian Songs of 2014,
Top Christian Songs of 2013,
Top Christian Songs of 2012,
Top Christian Songs of 2011,
Top Christian Songs of 2010,
Top Christian Songs of 2009!
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New Year’s Prayer for Singles

New Year Prayer for Christian Singles

Another year has come and gone and the expectation for a new beginning starts right away. Some singles might feel lost or even discouraged with high expectations for New Year’s Resolutions, changing of habits, pursuing new plans and goals, and/or the challenges of looking for a mate. The good news is that by allowing God to work on us, we’ll be able to start the New Year with confidence of a better outcome for our plans (even if it doesn’t always go the way we planned or desired). We should hand over our heart’s desires to God in the hopes for a better future and a more fulfilled life.

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Joyful Christmas Music Songs.

Christmas Music

If you enjoyed our previous Christmas Songs collection, you’ll like this new one!  We chose other great Christmas music that has touched millions of people around the globe. These songs are a slice of heaven for those who are excited for a new season around the birth of our Lord Jesus. Let this Christmas be full of joy for you, and may our Lord be present in all your gatherings of loved ones.
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Caution…Recent Divorce

Divorce

In this new blog post, Dr. Jim gives us insights about what recent divorced person should do and if a Christian single should date a recent divorcé. Here’s how to help someone after a divorce and how to build your life again if you went through a divorce recently.

Caution…Recent  Divorces

There is a repeated fact that keeps surfacing in emails to me. It relates to those who are currently or who have recently (2 years) gone through a divorce. The fact is that these individuals are not ready to consider a new relationship. They think that they are ready and often set out to develop new relationships. A sincere desire is present to move on from the hurts of the past and apply the lessons in future relationships. Unfortunately there are many things at work within their dynamics that keep them from being able to have an objective perspective.

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10 Things To Be Thankful For This Thanksgiving Day.

Thanksgiving Day

It’s easy to look back and think what we should have done or how we should have reacted in certain situations.

Let’s look around more and see the real beauty that surrounds us. Simple things such as getting up in the morning, being able to see, hear, walk, love, and be loved, being able to be called a child of God even when we didn’t deserve it, are all things to be thankful for. Let’s not forget that our Lord Jesus gave Himself for us. Without His amazing grace, we wouldn’t be saved from our sins!

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Can a person really change? 11 Steps you can take to change your behavior.

change
In this new blog post you will find 11 steps that can be taken to change your behavior. What should you expect from someone who says they are changed and how can you change your own way of life? Here’s a great read for those who are not sure how to deal with changes and for those looking for a changed relationship.

Can a person really change?

Many times I receive an email from a single adult sharing their experience about meeting another person. The person will share how the person that they just met made mistakes in their past but are now a changed person. However, what follows turns out to be in reality a questioning of whether or not the person really changed. (more…)

Feeling isolated? 4 great ways to meet other singles.

isolated

When Christian singles withdraw from others, they isolate themselves from the outside world.  Dr. Jim shows us how this attitude can contribute to unhealthy living and how Satan can take advantage of lonely singles.  You’ll find 4 great ways in how to go about to meet other singles and make friends.

Do you feel isolated?

The more I relate with single adults there is one fact that stands out more than others. Too many singles withdraw from others and become isolated. The reasons vary from past hurts, to feeling ‘different’ around others. Whatever the reason the movement to isolation is dangerous.

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Are you struggling with God for an answer?

Struggle with God

When Christians singles don’t see their requests answered by God, it’s important to ask, pray, wait, and praise. But, what are the reason for our struggles? In this blog post, Dr. Jim teaches us how to trust God in times of struggles and why we should rely on faith, always.

Are you struggling with God for an answer?

Often I receive a question from a single adult regarding their struggle with God for an answer. It is very likely that this is a significant area for the person or they would not be struggling as much. Important questions need an answer, but the timing of the answer is often not the timing that we want to experience.

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