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"Thank you ChristianCafe.com for allowing us the opportunity to meet and fall in love!"

- Tara and Lonnie, Getting Married

ChristianCafe.com connects Christian singles in a virtual Cafe setting. With a free profile you can connect with other Christian singles free for 10 days (7 days plus an additional 3 days when you post your photo). If you were previously a member of ChristianCafe.com and wish to join us again you will need to add money to, or reactivate, your account.

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Creating Your Profile

We recommend using the latest version of Firefox, Internet Explorer, Google Chrome, Safari, or Opera when creating a profile on ChristianCafe.com.

The steps to create your free profile are outlined below.

Section One - General Information

On the first few screens you will be asked to select or input the following information:

  • Gender: Select your gender.
  • Country: Select your country. If your country is not listed select "Other" and choose from the full list provided. If your country is not listed in the full list of countries, select "Other Country" at the very bottom of the list.
  • City and Zip/Postal Code: Type in your city. You can choose to hide this on your profile once it is complete, if you wish. Type in your zip/postal code.
  • Birth Date: Select the month, day and year you were born. You must be at least 18 years of age to join ChristianCafe.com.
  • Username: Type in your desired profile name. We don't recommend you choose your full name because your username will be visible to all. The maximum character length is 13 letters. No numbers, spaces or special characters are allowed. Our system will add three or four numbers to the end of your chosen profile name after you have completed the profile questionnaire (e.g. if you select the name "happy", our system might assign you "happy333" once you complete your profile).
  • Email Address: Type in your email address. Your email address must be valid in order to use our site fully and we will send a confirmation request to the email address you list. We do not sell your email address or place you on any outside mailing lists without your consent.
  • Promotion Code (optional): If you have a promotion code please enter it. You do not need a promotion code to take advantage of the free 10 day trial (we give that to everyone!)
  • Referred (optional): If you were referred by a current ChristianCafe.com member, please enter their username in this box. This way we can give extra free time to that member to thank them for referring you!

The final screen of this section will ask you to accept the terms of the Membership Agreement. The agreement is available for viewing on that screen, if necessary.

Section Two - Multiple Choice

Following the general information section are Multiple Choice questions. You must complete every multiple choice question (select one option from each drop down menu). If there isn't a response that suits, select the closest one. You will have more space to express yourself in the Short Answer section.

Section Three - Short Answer

Section three contains a list of Short Answer questions. This is the best place to really express yourself. See tips on creating a more appealing profile for help with writing your answers. You can write as much or as little as you wish for each. Any question you leave blank will not be included in your profile.

Account Created - Obtain Username and Password

Once you have completed the short answer questions screen you will have successfully created your account. The final screen will state "Account Created". On that page make note of your username and password. With your username and password you're ready to log in for the first time and start meeting new singles.

Don't forget, you can always edit what you've written at any time. You'll also want to add some quality photos so your profile so it gets attention! Read more online dating profile tips on our blog.

Previous Members

If you have been a member of ChristianCafe.com before, you cannot create a new profile, as multiple accounts are not permitted. You must sign up for more time in your existing account. If you have trouble accessing your account please send a message to former@christiancafe.com (include your username) if you would like to come back as a paying member.

Benefits of Joining

ChristianCafe.com has been connecting Christian singles since 1999, with many testimonials proving our success. The Cafe provides an opportunity to meet likeminded singles who share your Christian faith and values, while protecting your privacy. Not only that, we allow you to try before you buy, with our 10 day free trial offer. Please read more benefits of joining ChristianCafe.com.

Retrieving Your Password

If you have an active profile on ChristianCafe.com, you can request your password by the methods listed below.

Request Your Password by Email

If you still use the email address you used to sign up for your Cafe account, request your username and password be emailed to that email address. You must use the email address that you used to sign up for your Cafe account. If, after making the request, you still don't receive your password check your junk/spam folders for our email.

Request Your Password to a Different Email Address

If you no longer use the email address you used to sign up for your Cafe account, write to help@christiancafe.com and include your ChristianCafe.com username, your zip/postal code, your birthday, your city, and let us know the email address you originally listed with us. We will email you your password.

Accessing Your Account

If you know your username and password but are having problems accessing your Cafe account, please review Accessing Your Account instructions.


ChristianCafe.com is a safe online environment to meet other single Christians. Things like having your own anonymous mailbox right on the Cafe help to keep your personal details private. That said, there are a number of things you should be aware of when meeting others online. Please spend a few moments and read Dating Safety Tips.


New members can try ChristianCafe.com absolutely free for a trial period (7 days, plus 3 more days if a photo is posted). This includes email and IM privileges. You do not need to input a credit card to access the free trial, and you are under no obligation to pay for a membership once your trial period expires. If you wish to continue on as a member of ChristianCafe.com after your trial, there are a range of membership options to choose from. The longer the membership you purchase the less it costs per day. See Membership Prices for more details.


ChristianCafe.com has successfully matched Christian singles ranging from those living in the same city to those on the opposite ends of the world. Please read testimonials / reviews from those who have met their soul mate on ChristianCafe.com

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