Feeling guilty. How to deal with guilt?

Feeling Guilty

When you feel guilty, what as a Christian should you do to overcome it?  Dr. Jim explains how a person can have the Holy Spirit help him/her to deal with their guilt and what the Bible teaches about guilt

Feeling guilty. How to deal with guilt?

Life is filled with choices and too often we do not make the best ones. There are times when we have purposely made choices that later proved to be very bad ones (and painful). As the decision plays itself out, we begin to realize that this choice was very sinful and damaging to us and to others.

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How to forgive? When asking or giving forgiveness.

How to forgive
When Christians ask themselves how to forgive or giving forgiveness to others: Dr. Jim explains what we should do and what is expected from us, as God’s children. If you’re looking for forgiveness or trying to find terms to forget someone who wronged you, this is a must read. This article can help you find ways to seek forgiveness and/or how to forgive someone.


How to forgive.

Life on this earth is not perfect. I know this will be a shock to some of you, but it just isn’t so. However, for Christians, this is as bad as it will get. I often think that life on earth is the Christian’s Hell. Have you ever wondered why God did not just take us straight to Heaven when we become His children? He always has a plan and this fact is certainly part of His plan.
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Best Dating Sites Review Choice Awards – ChristianCafe.com

Best Dating Sites

ChristianCafe.com was recently awarded the “2018 Best Dating Sites” in the Religion category. We’re Bible believing Christians whom you can trust to help you connect with thousands of singles who are looking to find their future spouse. Check out what the Best Dating Sites Review Choice Awards had to say about us.


ChristianCafe.com: Best Dating Sites Review Choice Awards 2018

We’re very proud to be one of the tools that God uses to connect singles who are looking for a Christ-centered relationship online. We work hard to make ChristianCafe.com a safe environment for singles who know how important is to have a Christ-like place where they can connect and mingle with other singles.

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Top Christian Songs 2017

Top Christian Songs 2017

Now that 2017 is over it’s time to present our annual list of the Top Christian Songs 2017. Every year we’re amazed with the talent we see from believers who want to worship our Lord through song. Their passion for Jesus enables them to create awesome music that we enjoy. (If you’re interested in the best songs from previous years, you can check out the winners from then: top Christian songs 2016, and top Christian songs 2015.

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Lonely Christmas – How to turn it into one filled with cherished memories.

Lonely Christmas

Some single Christians sometimes are afraid they are going to have a lonely Christmas. How to turn it into one filled with cherished memories and excitement? Dr. Jim talks about his own experience of spending Christmas alone. Not everyone is able to be with family or friends. How can we share our joyful spirit when we don’t feel happy?


Lonely Christmas Again

Ho, ho, ho or no, no, no?
Christmas is only a few days away and our world is filled with Christmas ads for shoppers. Radio stations are playing Christmas music 24 hours a day. Some start before Thanksgiving. It is a wonderful time of year – right? Well, not for many single adults. The emphasis only serves to magnify what they do not have as a result of their single status.

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Christmas Quotes.

Christmas quotes

Christmas is just around the corner, with the scent of Christmas already here. With this wonderful day approaching, we’ve got a great way to celebrate and have a joyful and merry spirit! We’ve listed some of the nicest Christmas quotes we know.


The birth of our Saviour, how extraordinary a gift for all the world when our God arrived as a little baby 2,000 years ago.

I can’t help but think about how those shepherds must have felt when they first saw and heard the angels proclaiming the coming of the Messiah. Oh, what joy! Our desire is that these Christmas quotes touch your heart at this special occasion, as was declared: “Peace on Earth, and goodwill toward all mankind.”

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The Real Marriage Meaning And What Society Teaches About Marriage

Marriage Meaning

The marriage meaning for Christians: we see how society tries to impose their worldviews on us and our faith. We see how Christianity is looked down upon, or the blasphemy thrown at us, or even lost Christians who don’t follow the teachings of the Holy Bible. And, have their own set of rules and beliefs (which forever get worse). So then, what is the real meaning of marriage for us as Christians?


The Meaning Of Marriage

As Christians, we should make sure we don’t allow ungodly teaching, thinking, or acts to negatively affect us and our families. On this blog post about the marriage meaning, we have some wonderful words from Jennifer Flanders about what society teaches us – and what Christianity teaches us about marriage.
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Happy Thanksgiving: Why Should You Be Thankful For?

Love Quotes

Happy Thanksgiving and praise the Lord for He is good. Why should we be thankful for? When reflecting our own lives and been able to praise the Lord even in adversities. This is the time of the year that we should show our appreciation for what we have, who we are, and everything we were blessed with.

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Love Quotes For Christians.

Love Quotes

Love quotes for Christian singles who want to express exactly what true love really means to them. We present the best love quotes we found in the Bible, as as well as in the secular world. We hope these help you express how love has (or can) touch(ed) your heart and soul. Enjoy!


When love fills our heart, we can have a hard time being able to truly show how we feel, and describe that amazing feeling of being loved. And, what love means. With that in mind, we went to our main source (the Scriptures, of course!) on how we should love. We collected some verses that show what love really is and what it should be.

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Love Addiction: Is the Internet your drug of choice? Part 2

Love Addiction
Love Addiction afflicts thousands of singles. How can you deal with compulsive behaviour like this in a Christian manner? What is the void in their lives that they are trying to fill? Dr. Jim gives a detailed account on how to get help if you’re caught up in this kind of behaviour.


Love Addiction: Is the Internet your drug of choice? Part 2

How does one deal with compulsive behavior in Internet usage? I am not a trained counselor but some practical items come to mind that I invite you to consider:

1. You cannot “think” your way to stopping this behavior. (Intellectual)

2. You cannot “feel” your way to stopping this behavior. (Emotions)

3. To change one must deal with the force behind the behavior. (Self-image/Spirit) (more…)

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