What Every Christian Couple Should Talk Before Saying “I Do”

The great word: I do
“I do”

Today’s article is brought to you by a guest writer, Kevin Gardner.

4 Conversations Every Christian Couple Should Have Before Saying “I Do”

God never created men and women to be alone. From birth, humans long for connection and intimacy with others, seeking a life filled with love, compassion, and security. This can grow complicated when courting, and eventually dating the person you wish to wed. As you know, finding the one or your soulmate is a nuanced idea that has been spoon fed to young romantics by secular culture. Real, biblical relationships require communication and compromise with the person you have chosen.

Newsweek Ranks ChristianCafe.com #1 Customer Service

#1 Customer Service For Online Dating
ChristianCafe.com Award for Best Customer Service

Newsweek magazine just announced their annual “Best Customer Service Award” and ChristianCafe.com was ranked #1. Last year we were ranked #2 of the top 3 in their “Online Dating Sites” category. We moved up this year to take the top spot!  We couldn’t be more proud of our staff and their achievement in being awarded this top ranking.

America’s Best Customer Service 2019 Award

ChristianCafe.com Top Customer Service in Newsweek Award
ChristianCafe.com Award for Best Customer Service

Newsweek magazine announced their “Best Customer Service Award” for 2019. ChristianCafe.com was a winner in the “Online Dating Sites” category! We’re delighted to share the good news to all our members and visitors. We’re proud of the customer service we regularly provide to our valuable members. This is a testament to the work our Cafe Staff handle daily to help make our Christian singles website one of the most recognizable dating sites online.

What does the Bible says about interracial dating? Is it ok to use a Christian interracial dating site?

Interracial Dating Site

Some Christian singles may not be sure about using a Christian interracial dating site to look for their soulmate.   Dr. Jim explains what the Bible says about interracial dating and the best way to make sure that your relationship can turn in marriage.

Best Christian Apps For Singles – Android Version

Android Best Christian Apps for dating

Our revamped Android dating app for Christian singles has been released and is already successful. Feedback from our members has been positive with this latest redesign of our application. For sure one of the best Christian apps online.


When singles are seeking love online, it can be difficult and even stressful for those who are serious about finding their match online. However, since the advent of the smartphone, many singles applications have been created to try and make life easier for daters, so they have a better dating experience.

However, not all dating apps are the same. Many aren’t ideal for those who are searching for long-term relationships and marriage. For Iphone users, please read our blog article here: Iphone Christian Apps for dating

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas! What a wonderful time it is to celebrate our Savior’s birth and realize just how much God loved us by showing up as a little baby in a manger.


How Christmas started.

Another Merry Christmas is just days away and with it we want to share our joy and merry times with all Christians around the world. Whether single or not, every Christian understands the importance of that newborn baby boy over 2,000 years ago.

It wasn’t just a birth, rather, it was a miracle. And, because of that, we understand God’s love for his beloved children, including you and me. What a blessing to know that God became flesh in the form of that tiny little baby to redeem all humanity from their sins! All we have to do is respond to this free gift of salvation and accept Jesus into our lives as our Lord and Savior!

Advice For Single Christian Women: What’s wrong with men?

What's Wrong With Men
What’s wrong with men? Dr. Jim explains how to avoid future hurtful feelings when meeting Christian men online. Beware of false expectations at the beginning of an online relationship. We should never let our guard down and keep safety as our first priority when connecting with other singles via a dating website.


What’s wrong with Christian men?

You might ask: What’s wrong with men?  This question, or one similar to it, has been asked often in emails to me. Wow – does it open up a big subject. I have not received one from Christian men asking what is wrong with Christian women – but suspect I will soon.

How do I choose a good Christian counseling professional?

Christian Counseling

Dr. Jim gives great advice on how to find a good Christian counseling professional who can help you deal with relationship issues, and other things that matter in your life. He explains how important is to get help, but more than that, it’s about finding a good counselor who can help you deal with and get through your struggles.


A Christian Counseling Professional: how to find one.

Allow me a premise as I begin to write this article. The premise is that each of us has a spirit and a soul. Our spirits relate to God and our souls relate to one another. Have you ever heard the term ‘soul mate’?

In the spiritual world, we find great benefit in seeking out those of more Christian maturity or training to give us insights. God has gifted many teachers of His word who make the scriptures come alive for us and give us deeper understanding. The insights gained allow us to walk in more freedom as well as in more awareness of who we are.