Ghosting in Christian Dating: A Faith-Based Response.

Ghosting
Ghosting

Few things feel more confusing than being ghosted.

One day, conversations feel exciting and full of possibility. Messages arrive constantly. A connection seems to be growing. Then suddenly, silence.

No explanation. No honesty. No closure.

Ghosting has become extremely common in modern dating, but that does not make it less painful. For Christians, it can feel even more discouraging because relationships are supposed to reflect honesty, kindness, and respect.

Disappointment from being let down?

Disappointment
Disappointment

Dear Jim: How can I guard myself from being hurt from the hurt and disappointment that accompanies being let down?

Do you find yourself in a cycle of being let down by others? Do Christians and non-Christians say one thing but when it comes time for action, they just don’t deliver? The pain that comes from such repeated cycles is tremendous and needs to be addressed rather than allow it to ‘imprison’ one from his or her future and the necessary element of trust.