Online Goodness For Singles Seeking Their True Love
Few experiences leave us feeling as vulnerable as the end of a relationship. If you’re wondering how to get over a breakup, you may be carrying disappointment, unanswered questions, and a heart that feels broken. As Christians, we can bring those emotions to God, knowing He understands our pain and promises never to leave us.
Few things feel more confusing than being ghosted.
One day, conversations feel exciting and full of possibility. Messages arrive constantly. A connection seems to be growing. Then suddenly, silence.
No explanation. No honesty. No closure.
Ghosting has become extremely common in modern dating, but that does not make it less painful. For Christians, it can feel even more discouraging because relationships are supposed to reflect honesty, kindness, and respect.
Dear brothers and sisters in Christ,
The pain of heartbreak can leave us feeling lost. After a breakup, it’s easy to wonder if we’ll ever be able to love again. But I want to remind you of something important: God’s affection never changes, even when our relationships do.
When people walk away or plans fall apart, God stays. His true connection remains.
There’s comfort in knowing that even when we can’t see the road ahead, God can.
All human beings need love. People won’t be satisfied with their life if there’s no one who can support them and show them respect and love. That’s the reason, if we’re faithful, that God can send us someone who’ll complete us. However, as many people know, things in love and relationships do not always go in the right direction. After many months or even years of love, a breakup can suddenly occur. Moving forward is hard!
A breakup is never easy, even if the relationship was unhealthy. Many singles still have strong feelings about the other person, but have doubts about giving the relationship another try. Is this kind of relationship worth pursuing? See below for what Dr. Jim has to say about the breakup of a unhealthy relationship and the best way to go about it.
Breakup, but still want to return to the relationship.
Dear Jim: I recently had a breakup with my boyfriend (an unhealthy relationship). Now I have these strong feelings of rejection and wanting to return to the relationship. What can I do?
You have made the mutual choice to stop the relationship and step away. However, your emotions are screaming, ‘I want to vote!’ It is when we allow our ’emotions’ to lead us that we get into trouble. Those who take this approach to relationships find that they repeat bad cycles. They seem to end up with the same type of people in relationships and with the same bad results.