First Date and No Attraction: Etiquette


Pastor Jim provides advice for Christian singles regarding how to react upon realizing you are not attracted to your date.


» Dear Jim: I finally met someone in person and am not attracted. When should I tell them?

Relating to others develops many scenarios. The one that most often occurs when using the Internet for dating is that there often develops a ‘connection’ prior to actually meeting face-to-face. This is accomplished by many emails exchanged and perhaps phone calls where there appears to be a rapport and mutual draw.

Chemistry and Christian Dating

 

Pastor Jim provides advice for Christian singles about the place of chemistry in relationships.


Is attraction an important ingredient in dating?

Attraction is an important ingredient in dating. Many are guided by whether or not they ‘feel’ an attraction toward a person of the opposite gender. The physical attraction toward another person is often capsulated under the term ‘chemistry.’ I suggest that this is one of the most misunderstood areas connected with potential relationships.